How to know if you love like God

th-14“God so loved the world that He gave…” (John 3:16).

If you love like God, you will love and hurt at the same time.

The tragedy of God’s love is that it is not universally received. “He came to that which was his own, but his own did not receive him” (John 1:11).  What a tragedy. Do you think God feels that tragedy? Personally, I think that is why the prophet Isaiah called Him a man of sorrows and acquainted with grief.  That is why Jesus wept over Jerusalem, because He wanted to gather everyone up and bring them to Himself, but they would not all come.

How is it that God being God would create a world where His love was limited by the free will of those He created, making Him appear helpless to do anything about those who would reject Him? I honestly do not know how this works, but I do know God feels these feelings because He has expressed them in the inspired scriptures handed down to us.

My point today is not to enter into a theological debate over this, because that is where these discussions often lead, but to capture some of the nature of God in His love for us and suggest that we should at least share in these same attitudes and emotions, primarily that we should be governed more by the tragedy of those who reject God’s love than by their judgment or their wrong doing.

Do we weep or do we condemn? If you ever catch yourself shaking your head in judgment and condemnation, stop. Stop judging and weep instead. That’s what God did, and He even has the right to judge (and will someday). The cross has put that judgment aside so that He can love. Can we do any less?

So if you love like God, you will love and hurt at the same time.

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3 Responses to How to know if you love like God

  1. Mark Seguin says:

    Great Catch Pastor John – all I know is the Holy Spirit gives me a lot of comfort when I allow myself to try to feel others pain and weep with them and to try my best not to judge… I just wish I’d do it a lot more often! Why of why is it sooo easy for me to judge…

    PS A question I’m looking forward to, if our dogma is correct, which I believe / think it is, so some sweet day I look forward to sitting in on some lectures in Heaven and looking forward to a great discussion! 🙂

  2. TimC says:

    Later on in his life John provided some further explanation on Love.
    1 John 3:16 This is how we know what love is: Jesus Christ laid down his life for us. And we ought to lay down our lives for our brothers and sisters. 17 If anyone has material possessions and sees a brother or sister in need but has no pity on them, how can the love of God be in that person? 18 Dear children, let us not love with words or speech but with actions and in truth.


  3. Kris Rudin says:

    Very good words, John! More love, less condemnation – what a world that would be if we all lived that out!

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